Cost of raising a child increases to £218,000
Press Release: 26th January 2012
- Rising cost of childcare, education and food hits parents as overall cost of raising a child increases 3.3% in a year
- Over three-quarters of parents (76%) are making cutbacks to the family budget due to financial pressures
- Two in five parents (43%) have reduced the amount they regularly save and only a third (32%) have life cover in place.
The annual Cost a Child Report [1] from protection and retirement specialist LV=, reveals the cost of raising a child from birth to their 21st birthday now totals a record £218,024. This equates to £10,382 a year, £865 a month or £28.44 a day (see the full report here).
The report shows the overall cost of raising a child has increased by 3.3% in the last year with education and childcare remaining the biggest expenditures, costing parents a massive £71,780 and £62,099 respectively. The cost of education, including school uniforms, after-school clubs, and university tuition fees, has experienced the biggest rise, with a 5% increase in spending over the past year.
However, some areas of expenditure have decreased since last year as three-quarters of parents (76%) look at ways to cut back, with spending on hobbies and toys down 5%.
The overall cost of raising a child has increased by 55% since LV='s first Cost a Child Report in 2003.

The costs in detail
Expenditure from birth to age 21 | Total cost | % difference from last year | % difference from 2003 - first year of the report |
|---|---|---|---|
Education* | £71,780 | 5.1% | 120% |
Childcare & babysitting | £62,099 | 2.7% | 57% |
Food | £18,667 | 4.0% | 25% |
Clothing | £10,781 | 3.7% | -5% |
Holidays | £15,532 | 1.6% | 36% |
Hobbies & Toys | £9,248 | -4.6% | 4% |
Leisure & Recreation | £7,303 | -0.6% | 15% |
Pocket Money | £4,337 | 4.8% | 28% |
Furniture | £3,373 | 2.5% | 62% |
Personal care | £1,143 | 2.6% | 24% |
Other (includes driving lessons, first car, birthday and Christmas presents) | £13,761 | 4.8% | 56% |
TOTAL | £218,024 | 3.3% | 55% |
*Does not include private school fees
Thrifty parents hunt out bargains
With the cost of living at the forefront of the nation's minds, many parents are looking at other ways to be economical with the family budget. To reduce outgoings, 67% of those mums and dads planning to cut back, are hunting down lower cost items or 'value' goods in their weekly shop. Over a third (35%) of those cutting back are buying items from second-hand shops and 34% are making extra cash by selling goods on eBay and at car boot sales. Nearly a third (30%) of parents making reductions to their outgoings have devised a specific budget for the family to stick to.
At what age do children become the most expensive?
Over the last 12 months the cost of raising a child has increased the most during university years (age 18-21), when parents could pay as much as £17,459 a year, up 5% from last year. New parents have also seen the cost of the first year of their child’s lives increase 2.8% to an average of £10,261.
The breakdown of how much parents are spending throughout the life of their child, and the percentage difference from last year:
- 1st year - £10,261 – up 2.8%
- Years 1 to 4 - £56,562 (£14,140 a year) – up 2.5%
- Years 5 to 10 - £46,073 (£7,679 a year) – up 3.1%
- Years 11 to 17 - £52,753 (£7,536 a year) – up 2.7%
- Years 18 to 21 - £52,376 (£17,459 a year) – up 5%
Mark Jones, LV= Head of Protection, said: "Our report shows education costs have increased dramatically and despite financial pressures, many parents are seeking out savvy ways to ensure they can still afford their children's higher education prospects. With tuition fees increasing this year we expect to see more parents making significant cut backs across the family budget to accommodate this."
Cost of university will soar for parents in 2012
With university tuition fees rising from September 2012 to a possible £9,000 a year, the cost of educating children is putting the biggest financial pressure on parents. The report found 42% of parents who thought their children would to go to university still hoped their child would go despite the planned increase in fees. Many parents will be sharing the cost of university with their children. 15% of parents said their children will need to fund part of it themselves, while 10% of parents will be cutting back in other areas to fund the costs associated with university, and 8% will plunder their savings. Significantly one in five (21%) parents who thought their child would go to university have now said they won’t due to the increase in tuition fees.
The LV= Cost of a Child report has also captured the average cost of private school fees between the ages of five and 18, in addition to the main report. The results show private school fees would add £105,336 to the cost of raising a child, increasing to £193,743 for boarding school fees (these figures are not included in the £218,024 cost of raising a child).
Pocket money
The amount given to children as pocket money totals £4,337 from birth to age 21. Of the parents who give pocket money to their children, 18% have made the decision to give their children less pocket money in the last year to help combat the financial strains they are under and help stretch the family budget further. However, overall the average amount of pocket money given to children has increased by 4.8% in the last year.
Not protecting the family's future
With mounting financial pressures, many families are reducing the amount of savings and protection they have in place. Two in five (43%) parents trying to decrease their spending have cut back on saving and reduced the amount they are putting away. A further 22% have cancelled or reviewed their insurance policies to try and save money.
When safe-guarding the family finances, 50% of parents don't have any life cover or income protection in place. Just a third (32%) of parents do have life cover, and only 11% have both life cover and income protection.
Mark Jones continued: "When considering ways to ease the family budget it is important that we keep in mind the long-term picture. Cancelling life cover or income protection, for instance, as a short-term measure to save money can have catastrophic implications if either parent were unable to work or weren't around in the future."
"Despite an uncertain UK economy forcing more pressure on the family budget, it's clear that parents don't begrudge the money they spend on their children, and would rather do without themselves than radically cut back on what they can provide for their children. From studying parent's spending habits we've seen the cost of raising a child steadily increase since our first report in 2003, and this trend shows no sign of stopping."
For the full report including regional breakdown click here
For further information about LV= please go to www.LV.com.
Notes to editors
[1] The cost of a child calculations, from birth to 21 years, have been compiled by the Centre for Economics and Business Research (CEBR) on behalf of LV= in December 2011 and are based on the cost for the 21 year period to December 2011. The report also includes omnibus research conducted for LV= by Opinium Research from 3-5 January 2012. The total sample size was 2,119 UK adults. Results have been weighted to nationally representative criteria.
About LV=
LV= employs over 5000 people and serves around five million customers with a range of financial products. We are the UK’s largest friendly society and a leading financial mutual.
When we started in 1843 our goal was to give financial security to more than just a privileged few and for many decades we were most commonly associated with providing a method of saving to people of modest means. Today we follow a similar purpose, helping people to protect and provide for the things they love, although on a much larger scale and through a wide range of financial services including insurance, investment and retirement products.
We offer our services direct to consumers, as well as through IFAs and brokers, and through strategic partnerships with organisations such as ASDA, Nationwide Building Society and a range of trades unions.
LVFS is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority, register number 110035. LVFS is a member of the ABI, the AFM and ILAG. Registered address: County Gates, Bournemouth BH1 2NF.






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